Knowing the Rules…So You Can Break Them





If you like pinstripes even a little bit, take note that Banana Republic has some good ones right now. My favorite is this short vest (I had it slimmed just a tad for more shape), but I also love this blazer and pair of slim pants. If you like dresses, there’s one of those too. Oh, and a midi skirt. May this embarrassment of riches never end!

The scientist in me likes rules. I like standard operating procedures and repeating patterns. Experimentation might be fun, but its end goal is to find a working repeatable solution to a problem. When it comes to fashion, I’m no different. I enjoy discovering fashion formulas, and I’ve studied “the rules” like research papers.

For instance, being petite, I know I should avoid baggy clothing, cutting my leg-line, and keep proportions balanced for my height. I also know this outfit does not follow the rules.

The boyfriend jeans swallow my figure and the rolled cuff cuts my leg-line, making my legs look short. The blouse is oversized and long for my proportions, and especially when left untucked, drags me down visually. I know all this, and yet I broke the rules willingly.

The thing is, if you know the rules going in, then you can break them in a smart way. Same thing with proper fit. I like to explore how an item should fit, so that I can make the educated decision to go with it, or against it.  I know these jeans are going to make my legs look stumpy, so I’ll roll the hem a little higher to show presence and pair them with low profile high heels. I know wearing an untucked blouse shortens me visually, so I’ll make sure it’s in a soft drapey texture, and I’ll push the sleeves up to my elbows. Two oversized, shortening clothing items paired together in one outfit? Throw on a structured, cropped, top layer to help wrangle the proportions. It’s not the most flattering look I’ve ever put together, but it’s one of my current favorites and I felt great wearing it.

The key to fashion rules is not to follow them, but to have command of them. It’s the difference between dressing for a purpose and dressing with a purpose. And when you dress with purpose, you can stay true to yourself and wear what you love and makes you happy. =)

— Details —

Vest Banana Republic
Shirt Equipment thanks to Shopbop (Fit Review) (also here & here)
Jeans Zara
Shoes Manolo Blahnik (similar here & here)
Handbag Sophie Hulme (this season’s collection)
Pin/Brooch Kathleen Whitaker (on sale!)
Watch Daniel Wellington (on sale!)
Jewelry Downtown LA & vintage

— Altered —

Vest has been slimmed

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  1. says: Anu Salow

    Lovely wild combinations. Looks so fresh :) Those jeans are amazing – white shirt balances them. I tore up one pair of my jeans and so I could try this look. My ripped jeans are not as wild as yours – only three cuts. Maybe I put leggings under. And black heels :) What you think, could I go to school to teach maths and robotics for 6th formers ? :) Okay, send you a picture later. Have a nice week , don’t get flu and fever. Love from Finland — Anu

  2. says: Anu Salow

    Hi, Kelly! Well, we don’t really have any kind of casual Friday but we have days with a certain theme. We teachers can dress quite freely here in Finland and the school trusts that we all know how to do it. Of course the weather puts the limits when you have to go out on a break. Anyway, the combination is swell and I try it at least at home.

    Hugs –Anu.

  3. says: Deb

    If you are going to break the rules, do it well! And you have.
    Like you, I generally follow the petites rules, but I’ve learned you can make other things work with attention to detail and proportion like you have suggested. Today’s look suits you very much Kelly.

  4. says: Stay Gold

    New to your blog here, myself a fellow scientist. Just noticed that your writing is very concise and analytical, refreshingly different from the mass of mediocrity out there in fashion blogs. I had suspicions that you were an engineer but at least I got the STEM part down. Keep up the great work.

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